Good morning, afternoon, and/or evening Sol Warriors!!
Today's topic is about "Talking Stage".
I know this social distancing has us going a little crazy. We are bored and cannot go outside and do "hoodrat things" with our friends. But before you go out there and just start responding to those DM's and swiping right on Tinder, I need to remind you about the talking stage. Not everyone is looking for love and not everyone wants a relationship, but you do need to be mindful and understand that you are your biggest asset and supporter.
The talking stage is just for you to get to know someone. You figure out the likes and dislikes, make friendships, and things like that. Plan dates, talk about different types of wine, your hobbies, etc.
You should always be upfront with everything. For example, if you just want sex, then say that, if you are looking for a relationship let it be known, if you looking for friendship then tell them that from the jump. Being in the friendzone isn't horrible because you don't know what the future holds for both of y'all.
"Stay true to your vision. If you're not getting the feedback that aligns with your vision, then you're possibly speaking to the wrong people." — Claudia King
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